Gossip, it is hard to come to a conclusion on whether it is a boon or a curse. Oh my God! It is inevitable and exist everywhere around us. It is not only limited to Gossip girl. When we are having a chit chat with friends, when we are waiting for elevator, having lunch in cafeteria, evening teashop and so on. The main consumers are Gossip News agencies, Gossip about celebrities of social media. With out gossip they can't run their business. In contrary it often plays a pivotal role in many people lives. It redirects you to the right path. Come let us gossip about gossip.
Gossip creates a dopamine in your brain which makes you cherish about it and feel no guilt about the same. Dopamine sometimes helps us to eliminate the ill signals created by brain. We feel superior when we tend to gossip about something or a particular person. It is obvious that if we gossip around someone, we will put them down more often than not.
It is said "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all". Whatever we say always remains said, done and dusted. It is not taken into account seriously. Gossip won't create the dopamine in the first place. Whenever we get to know something about someone gives the boost of dopamine and when we transmit that Secrets to others dopamine will get carried forward.
If a person is obsessed of Gossip then he not right one to whom we can share secrets with. On the other hand we can take some learning out of these people too. If they do it for praising someone, then it means they are on the right track. If they do it by pass on negative news then it helps us in self protection. We have to learn from both. It will make us alive in social community. It will help us to act upon the subject correctly while keeping the ill effects in mind. Hence it facilitates self protection.
Keeping all the scientific information about it aside, we will try to regulate this act of gossip. It is hard to avoid gossip but regulating it is more feasible. We have to try not to gossip about negative information about someone but to praise them. Let's hope it won't have ill effect on neither.
Happy Gossip!
It is said "If you can't say something nice, say nothing at all". Whatever we say always remains said, done and dusted. It is not taken into account seriously. Gossip won't create the dopamine in the first place. Whenever we get to know something about someone gives the boost of dopamine and when we transmit that Secrets to others dopamine will get carried forward.
If a person is obsessed of Gossip then he not right one to whom we can share secrets with. On the other hand we can take some learning out of these people too. If they do it for praising someone, then it means they are on the right track. If they do it by pass on negative news then it helps us in self protection. We have to learn from both. It will make us alive in social community. It will help us to act upon the subject correctly while keeping the ill effects in mind. Hence it facilitates self protection.
Keeping all the scientific information about it aside, we will try to regulate this act of gossip. It is hard to avoid gossip but regulating it is more feasible. We have to try not to gossip about negative information about someone but to praise them. Let's hope it won't have ill effect on neither.
Happy Gossip!
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