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Equalizer
Are you equalizer? Ask yourself. There is a probability of getting two answers. One is "What?" and the other is "No". There is logic behind these two answers. "Come let us derive!"

What?
Questioning something is always the easy one to do. Is it worthy asking here? Will it give  a answer? No, we can't get a answer. It always leads to more questions when we feel irrelevant to the subject of it. Sometimes we may feel relevant with in 10 iterations else it is hard to determine n^th iteration. To be precise "Be dumb if you feel irrelevant". Being dumb helps when you are up with a wise speaker. Hey! Where we going? Lol! This is what happens when we start questioning something which we don't expertise. Coming to point, equalizer is a person who negates in positive environments and spread positive energy in extremely retarded environment. These two features don't come in package. These two will be owned by two different ones. One will negate and another will spread positivity. Sarcastically both have some qualities in common. No, not here. Don't expect the answer for what is common between them. Let's dig in about What further. Equalizer are essential. They don't live abundant. They always dwell at the ultimate end of introvert or extrovert. They can be seen in all groups. They are the driving force at the same time they can be spoilsport too. In some cases where these Negates and Positive power bomb have misinterpreted combinations which can be very dangerous. This misinterpreted combination will be tragic at times. Let's leave it aside. Exceptions can't be examples. Lets jump in to next.

No!
Saying "No" at right time is an art. This is a essential skill which comes as a result of experience. It is depicted as art here because if we couldn't acquire the skill then we should practice it. Practice makes perfect. If we do it to perfection then we mastered that art until we use it to its full potential. To keep it simple. To tell No we need some guts. Guts is in the sense that we know the consequences of it. This doesn't mean that every no should be evaluated but at least it should make sense. If we feel complicated in all these then we are not one among these two. Is this a twist. Yes! you are not a equalizer if you don't relate all the above said.

It should be you. Yes, you are the one. Come along! people who made a pause or opt out from here are not the real contenders. First of all pat on shoulders yourself. You are special and you may be a equalizer. There is one knot which should be undone now. Common features of these two is optimism and diplomacy. They are actually that. They have the optimism and diplomacy to extent where they will be in the peaks of hatred and love at the same time. This is because they possess a feature that most of the normal people in the group don't. Normal people are like magnetic poles. They either attract or repel each other. This sums up everything. Hope we equalized the derivation.

Happy Equalizing!

Believe in yourself the best is yet to come. One of the famous quotes of Paulo Coelho goes like "when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it". Believing is first step to success. Let us wave through the belief tides.


Self belief
Believe yourself. Cultivate good thoughts. Walk along with your strengths and stay away from your weakness. Make way for your skills and interests. Don't give room for your negative thoughts. Observe the positive vibrations around you. You can heal your life with your self belief. Something becomes your habit when you believe that thing gives you small wins. Cherish those wins and stack them one over another. Everyone has their own respective dreams about their passion but only believer has more probability of reaching their desired passion or goals in life. You should believe your passion and practice it like you play, doing this little things will result in bigger outcomes. We will become what we believe in and think about and the universe loves the believers. Transform yourself into a believer which in turn makes you a energy bucket and a attractor of positive actions.

Hunter
Be the hunter of your own dreams. Don't show pathos to the victim called your passion. Believe this, implant in your heart, sow seeds of these in your brain, grow this idea day in and day out. When the tiger make back foot or hide back it is the sign of hunting likewise don't show up, stay back when your dream is in budding stage. Unleash the beast within when the prey is around your sight and there should be no way out for the prey. Analyze all the possibilities of the prey getting caught. There may be a probability of the prey is being missed. So stay composed. Many other predators hunt their preys in their own way, don't follow them. You are your own master. Tigers won't copy other predators and follow their own hunting rules. Make your own way and stick to it, believe in it. Tiger stay back silently till the prey comes likewise the best is yet to come in your life.

Pat on the back
Believe in your strengths, work on your weakness, analyze the opportunities and list down the threats. This is the crest of SWOT. You should pat on your back. Don't expect others to do that. You are your own motivator. You should appreciate yourself on your success even if it is small. Stack those small wins. This stacking is the steps to success. Be grateful to yourself. Exploit gratitude meditation day in and day out. Pray for the good when you are down. Be seamless in your actions. Evaluate outcomes. Redefine your own way of success.

Success won't knock your door when you don't believe in yourself. Be the success what you dream for. Hyenas will be waiting. Ignore that. Being versatile won't make you stronger. Don't be brittle because there is a probability of breaking down. Be strong and believe in yourself.

Happy belief! 

We always have a perception of pain and think why life is hurting me so much. The real fact is that Pain is experienced only when life hurts you too much. These pain gives harm to your heart and soul than your physical body. Please don't neglect pain since it can be made into stepping stones for success. Pain is a indication that the time has come to conquer and march towards the battle ground which determines winning in life. When you want to win you have to think of the dream and live that dream.Winning is not always easy, it always comes pain and struggle. If you try to do something which is related to your dream then it will become very much easy to pursue your pain and everyone around you.

Pain is everywhere in our life and pain neither be ignored nor be neglected. Something you do, something you think, something you live is what determines you. We may not have noted what are the things going around us. When we realize dream we come to know what is going around us and we will have sheer control of our actions. Something we see will be alarm for what we have to do and when we have to do. Everything is in our hands and no one have to do anything about that.

Lord Buddha has said life itself is a suffering. It is so because we get to attach to the things of eternal world. Lord Buddha also told to "accept the pain". This can be put aside since this is being the spiritual or religious perception of pain. When we tend to analyze pain in terms of psychology perception it is much more reasonable to show explicit thoughts about pain whereas the spiritual/religious perception always shows only implicit thoughts about pain. Psychology of pain relies on the inference we give to the pain which is a mere signal to brain. Our internal self talks which goes around in our brain and the superstitious beliefs which are stored in out subconscious mind drives our emotions while we are in pain.

Pain is inevitable and suffering can be made as a choice if we get to know about the psychology of pain. This is because suffering is based on the emotional and mental responses to pain. While we are trapped in pain we tend to ask ourselves "why me? This is not fair". Questions like these will not help. Recovery form pain should always be ongoing gradual progressive process where we should restore the areas of imbalance. Pain comes as a result of frustration/anger/anxiety/fear/sadness/hopelessness which is the root cause of suffering. Suffering can be transformed when we become aware of and be conscious about the chain of reactions and how we respond to it. The process of recovery is based on the fact that the responses which we give to our pain and the suffering it makes. We have to eliminate negative self talks, reestablish emotional imbalance, amplify positive thoughts, redirect the mind behind our dreams and rediscover ourselves.

If we find pain ruining our life, we may feel hard to live in this world. It is common and it is science. You don't have to panic about that. We have to find ways to try to come out of that. It may be distressed or restless. We have to divert our mind. See things in a simple way which may help you in the long run. Safeguard yourself don't reveal your weakness. Don't restrict your mobility. Control your anger and frustration. Be strong and take healthy foods. If you have faith in god or mother nature, worship them daily. Worship the work your mother your father your guru. Seek help from them. Make a wish from them. Everything may not seem easy but everything is possible. Probability is high.

Happy pain!

Finding your Passion is one of the hectic things which we constantly think of throughout our life. Being known is a kind of addiction which may help us to find our passion. We always have a craze on acquiring knowledge and getting appreciated for that. Are we taking action on acquired knowledge which can be a potential part for finding out your Passion?

Being Known
We all have a habit that we continue to absorb various kinds of subject knowledge. Knowledge means knowledge irrespective of subject matter expertise. It is just overall view of things we hear, read and see through. We have a deceiving conclusion that having overall knowledge is great to maintain. Overall knowledge may seem great but the inborn knowledge you have or the in depth knowledge you have only counts. There will be point in your life where something continuously provokes you and it will not let you sleep then its an alarm from which you have to raise up and move towards that. In this case we have to pursue that idea of knowledge. We have to put effort to do and live that thing. Doing all these things may help you to pursue your passion but are you feeling happy doing it. This is what keeps you down. You want fame, being known to everyone, make money, enjoy with family and friends, work from home at whatever time you wish to work. There will be lots of deceiving factors lying on the road to success but we have religiously focus on our passion and move on.

Are we living?

Happy passion! 

We all would have a question about coincidence and what it is in real life. Herewith depicted a example where the occasion while we meet our friends, one of major things we would do is making a gossip about a friend who we haven't seen for years. The next day or in the coming days that friend's post in facebook comes to our attention or their name will be added to our friends suggestions list. This may seem like facebook is overhearing our chat or it may be a mere coincidence. Here we will depict what coincidence has to do with the above said action. When two related things happen unexpectedly then we can call it as a coincidence. There should be more than few occasions for everyone here where we would have felt this.

POV
This theory may not be taken by some groups of people who don't believe this thing in their POV (Point Of View). Everyone's POV may differ but underlying fact is that this thing is inevitable. We may have a POV about anything but at the same time we should analyze its backdrop. The core of this theory lies in the fact that we should accept that coincidence occur as a matter of fact that it would not affect your progression in life. There may be exceptional scenarios where we could get affected by coincidences. In most cases we will have joy than not.

DIY
If you try to DIY (Do It for Yourself), it may not occur because that is the crest of Coincidence theory. We can't create coincidences and if we do so then it will be a moment to cherish only for the person who creates it than the person who experience it. Something like this happens under the control of God or the mother nature, we should not make it a calamity. We should accept this as it is and not think or research about it. You can just cherish the moment and go back to normal. Try to DIY in things which are not contrary and this is my POV.

Happy Coincidences! 

Joker! Hahaha... Yes the joker in you. The Joker we love. The joker we hate. The joker we don't realize who exist in and among us.

Joker?
Every professional joker has their own sorry tale hidden in their soul. They act to make us happy. Please don't think of the joker in Batman movie as of now. They perform even when they are heartbroken. They seem to be happy even when they are ill and hungry. These facts we don't know or don't realize when we enjoy them. There are some people who are phobic to jokers but enjoy jokes. Every one should understand that they are human too.

Why joker?
Jokers are common everywhere. Jokers lies within our character. We have to recognize that. We act happy but not so inside that is where the good joker in us gets projected. We act insane and not caring about environment that is where the bad joker gets projected. Bad joker here implies the joker we saw in Batman movie and the good joker is professional joker we see in real time. Both kinds of joker exist in us. It is our responsibility to whom we project and what we project. Sometimes we may not have to project one. Just be simple as you.

Knight?
We have to act like a Knight when come across a bad joker. Knight means chevalier who fights evil with brave heart. We are incorporated with Knight too in us. As one of the movie dialogue goes "I am the hero and I am villain", which depicts we have to be conscious enough of what role we are playing. We may choose to be a Knight at times and joker on the other hand. We have a lot of things which indicates we are in the good side or the evil. Please be aware of!

Happy jokes!

Dilemma! Have you ever heard this word before. Yes, Dilemma can be hectic at times. We shall go underneath dilemma hereunder.

Dilemma?
Choosing the better between two predicament . To be precise it is syllogism of perplex situation. We all would have come across this dilemma thing for sure so we may presume the definition of dilemma in our own way. Dilemma arises whenever there is a situational conflict to chose between two or more unfavorable alternatives. Matured Decision making skill is the key for dilemma conflicts. Interpretation of dilemma itself is a dilemma. It cannot be bound under single definition.

Ethical dilemma!
Moral imperatives are subject to ethical dilemma. There will be a Conflict between two alternatives where one of them is ambiguous and the other is transgressing. We have to be morale enough to make decision. Our ethics play a vital role in this dilemma. There may be many instances where we may have experienced this. Well known conflict is pursuing dream over ill family condition. Neither of them can't be traveled in a safe path, we have to put anyone of them on the line.

Exception handling
Validating ethical principles, emotions, after effects and interests is the most abundant way of handling dilemma. We have to be patient, think enough and validate to overcome this thing. Funny thing is that in most of the occasions we don't realize that we are trapped in dilemma and we have to make efforts to win that. While handling dilemma we have to be brave and rationale enough to make wise decision which yields ethical outcomes.

Happy dilemma! 

Lucid dream?
Have you ever heard of inception or totem, if yes you can feel nostalgia else you can feel deja vu. In simple terms Lucid dream is where you have control over the dream and its environment. Some of the Hollywood movie story line which is based on lucid dream are Inception, Avatar, Matrix and so on. In all the above movies the some of the characters in the movie have control over their dream.

How to lucid dream?
As the saying goes "Practice makes perfect", practicing to control the dream by making some check points (totem) which distinguish real life and dream is one of renowned ways of lucid dreaming. Some people are always aware of what is around them, for those people practicing Lucid dream is simple. Base line of lucid dream is being aware of and control over what happens around us while dreaming.

Dream comes true!
If we endeavor dreams which would come true then we ought to practice lucid dreaming. We can achieve this Dream comes true thing easily. As our dear president said dream can be transformed from thought and results in action. Dream is not a simple thing which goes along as sleep but it is the engaging thing which don't let you sleep unless you accomplish it. Please follow your dream and make them become true by practicing lucid dreaming.

Happy dreams!

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Have you ever wondered this thing has happened to me already and i am experiencing the same again. If yes then it might be because of lucid dream else it might be because of false memory. Here we are going to discuss about the False memory.

What is false memory?
As the name itself imply that it is the memory which stores or reproduce false data. Best example for false memory is that if you heard a gossip or a cooked up story, you can't reproduce the same while you try to explain others unless you memorize or take some notes of that. Another classic example is Mandela effect. Most of us while we Gossip about someone or some events we may not reproduce the same stuff again and again to different people unless we plan or memorize it.

Good or bad?
Everything in this world is neither good nor bad. Categorization of good or bad is based on one's perception and its environment. If you trust God or mother nature false memory is bad for you on the other hand if you don't trust neither of these then the ball is in your court. I advocate that whenever you are making critical decisions better don't believe false memory.

Memory Loss!
If you ask me about memory loss, I would say it is the father of false memory. If you are addicted to false memory then it may lead to memory loss which is proportional to mental disorders. Please be precise of what you want to be. There is no point of sarcasm or chauvinism is here. I just want to save you my friends who are directly or indirectly addicted to social media. Social distress is one of main root cause of false memory. Dear reader please be aware of...

Happy memories!