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Sunday, October 7, 2018

Setbacks and ways to overcome them

"Every setback is a setup for comeback"
God wants to bring you out better than you were before
-joel osteen

Setback is a phase of our life that delays our progress or reverse some of our progress that we have made.We tend to struggle right from the time we dream and want to get it done before we die.Those dreams or passion gives us a burning desire to achieve it and we start to work for it. When we start, it will be fast also progressive. We work day and night to reach it soon because its our dream that never let us sleep And that burning desire that never let us sit. The pain we undergo to get that dream in our hands and to feel the happiness that we dream off  has to be real and the journey has to be very painful.

Everyone who works hard in their life to achieve something will have to experience this phase. It actually starts when your speed slows down. At this stage many people give up. When the process of our dream never showed us a result and we end up believing its just a dream so we never make a move. Thats when we get into the phase called setback.

Setback is a slow processing phase that brings no happiness . we know that dreams are not moving as we planned and the burning desire doesn't burn anymore inside us. Typically that is the most painfulhatefulstressful time of our life.

At this time,
*Some actually give up to start a normal, boring life which they had to do it for survival,
*Some gets stressed out and becomes lonely,
*Some really have to give up for society's pressure ,
*Some still work on it but with no motivation, 
You can be any of the above type but many of us find it difficult to progress this phase to reach what we want in our life. 

At this point ask yourself
1. Isn't this dream which made me work day and night tirelessly?

2. Isn't this dream which gave me a future look of me sitting where i wanted to and doing what i wanted to?

3. Isn't this dream who inspired me and gave a meaning to my life?

Am i giving up my Dream for all these small pains?

Never ever give up because you really don't know where you are in the line of success. You may be at the last step to step into your victory doors so never stop fighting till the end. Setbacks are those time when the dream is preparing you hard enough to face all the pain and stress in advance so that you become stronger and better when you achieve. 

Setbacks are not a bad time or demons that drag you down from the ladder of success instead take them as your motivator to climb the peak .It is all 
Because of your Setback you are Stronger
Because of your Setback you are Smarter
Because of your Setback you are Powerful
Because of your Setback you are Wiser
Because of your Setback you have Hunger for more.

And if you think you are no where near to it, you also should know this.

Best comes from the bottom..
This world will hold your name up high when your dream decides you are stronger enough to hold it ,until you have to pass this phase. Congrats for being in this phase of your life which is where you learn .You experience and yeah you are in the Semifinals soon to be at Final Stage.

Remember
"Damaged people are dangerous because they know they can survive". Be proud to be damaged.

SETBACK IS THE TRAINER FOR BETTER YOU. YOU CAN DO IT AND DON'T GIVE UP CHAMPIONS.

"All the best"

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